Setting The Right Example For Unity Day

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Unity Day in Los Alamos Public Schools is meant to foster awareness about the damaging effects of bullying and discrimination. It is a day when our community should be coming together to teach our children valuable lessons about tolerance, empathy, and understanding. As responsible adults, we cannot ignore the tumultuous events unfolding on the global, national, and local stages, and how our actions set a precedent for the next generation.

The ongoing conflicts in Gaza and Ukraine are reminders of the devastating consequences of division. The cycle of violence seems never-ending, with innocent civilians on both sides paying the price for the actions of a few. As adults, we must emphasize the importance of peaceful negotiations and dialogue, rather than engaging in cycles of vengeance. It’s crucial that we teach our children to seek peaceful resolutions and take time to understand the complex issues at play, rather than perpetuating hostilities through inflammatory rhetoric.

Closer to home, the divisive nature of national politics is on full display. Congress’s inability to pass a budget resolution showcases the gridlock that occurs when ideological differences take precedence over the needs of the nation. It is essential that we convey to our children the importance of compromise, constructive dialogue, and putting the greater good ahead of political agendas.

Even at the local level in Los Alamos, we see the mismanagement of issues like diversity and inclusion. When these topics are weaponized for political gain, it only serves to deepen the divides in our community. Instead of seeking to understand each other’s perspectives and working toward a truly inclusive society, we often find ourselves in opposition. This example is not the one we should be setting for our children on Unity Day.

Let’s remember that our actions speak louder than words. We must lead by example, teaching our children the values of empathy, tolerance, and open-mindedness. We should encourage them to engage in respectful discussions, to listen actively to different viewpoints, and to seek common ground. As adults in Los Alamos, we have the responsibility to demonstrate that conflicts can be resolved through diplomacy, that political differences can be bridged through compromise, and that unity can be achieved through understanding and empathy. Let’s set a positive example for our children on Unity Day – and every day that follows – so they can inherit a world where cooperation triumphs over division.

Intolerance Ain’t Welcome Round Here

On May 1, 2023, a 35-year-old horse rancher was fatally shot while driving home, leaving behind a wife and 14-year-old daughter. His neighbor shot him 15-30 times while he was driving home. I want all the fathers to re-read that and think about it for a minute. The next part can wait…

In Latino culture, one of the proudest days of a father’s life is the day his daughter turns 15 and celebrates her “quinceañera” or transition to womanhood. In another article, his daughter said referencing the suspect:

“Me and my dad were so excited to dance at my quinceañera, and now I don’t have him with me. So now I can’t dance with him. And he took that away from me, he took my dad away from me, he took my dad away from my brother.”

Let. That. Sink. In.

When they opened the horse ranch in 2020, his neighbor had repeatedly threatened him that Hispanics are not welcome. The family reported the incidents, but nobody did anything to protect them.

Bigotry never begins as an overt act of violence, but when communities allow it to fester, that is always where it leads, such as robbing a daughter of her father right before her quinceañera. We can only practice tolerance so much. I commend the local media for having the integrity to allow all members of the community to express their opinions, but when members start spewing obstinate and unreasonable attachments to beliefs, opinions, or factions, in particular prejudice against people on the basis of their membership of a particular group, the rest of us must take a page from the queens who dare to be themselves – unapologetically bold – and use our freedom of expression to stand up and speak out against it.

In a land where hearts embrace,
Intolerance finds no rightful space,
For here we gather, united and strong,
A community where love belongs.

Prejudice, we turn you away,
You have no power, no place to stay,
Your narrow views, your judgment’s grip,
Will not tarnish the harmony we equip.

Inclusion reigns with open arms,
Dissolving divisions and past harms,
Diversity blooms in vibrant array,
Acceptance guiding our every way.

No matter the color, creed, or race,
Respect and understanding we embrace,
For in our differences, we find the key,
To unlock a world where all are free.

Intolerance, take your leave,
Your presence, we do not receive,
We’ll build a haven, free from fear,
Where compassion and love are crystal clear.

With open hearts and open minds,
We’ll foster unity that forever binds,
Together we stand, united and near,
In a place where intolerance disappears.

So let it be known, far and wide,
In this community, intolerance can’t abide,
For in our hearts, we hold it dear,
That intolerance ain’t welcome round here.